Lesson 3-Define your "Why" to survive

Did you ever ask yourself "why am I doing this task?" or "why is this a fact?" or "why should I even trust this person?" if you do, then you are a master in your life. How? every instance of your action has an objective, a mission to achieve ordered by the brain. "Why" is a word that defines where you stand now. "Why" is the word which challenges many facts to create innovation. "Why" is the word which creates sparks in the communication.

Everyday define your "WHY" to create meaning in your life

Define your motive for the day so that you can achieve your objective for the dream that you are fighting for. It is a simple task but plays a major role when you achieve that.

Example: If an engineer defines "why am I an engineer?" every day, by just acting on a small motive of their big dream, then they are a true engineer. A mother answers her "why" every day by a small act of guidance to her kid's big dream.

A soldier wakes up everyday questions himself "why am I surviving today?" answer is simple he survived yesterday. So he has got another day to act on his motive, another day to prove why he wants to protect people, another hour to prove why he wants to fight for his country and another minute to remember why did he survive.

Every act of yours should be questioned with why

Every minute we have is precious, is worth more than what we possess. Question every act you're about to do "why" just "why" do you want to do that. No one will ask you why are you doing that but once you fail or don't survive, everyone is ready to hop on you with the same question, "why did you do that ?".

If you want to survive then you answer your "why" before "what"

It is a simple concept if "I ask you to move a pen from position A to position B for around 1000 times would you do?" It would be a big NO for a lot of people. They would ask "why should I do that?".

The same question if I put it in a different way "move a pen from position A to position B for around 1000 times to get 1000 bucks would you do?",then answer would be big yes.

If we define why we want to do that it becomes more clear later on what we should do to achieve that. I personally follow this to bring emotion to what I do.

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